| You know what?
I am very self conscious when i speak. Hell yes.
Everytime i say something, i always have to think about it before i say it. its not the whole thinking about whether i should say it or not, its the whole thing about "if they care about what i say" concept. i notice how when some people talk, they tend to use the word "I" a couple million times. after a while, it gets extremely annoying and you no longer care what they got to say as your mind wanders off somewhere else. its always something along the lines of "Yeah... and I was like..." or "I thought...." or "I wish..." and so on. always with the word "I" somewhere in their sentences. So after realizing this, everything i say i tend to avoid the word "I". But then if you think about it, you dont have much to say if you dont use the word "I" in almost every other sentence. Then the conversation just tends to die and you end up with an awkward silence. i dont know whether its only me or if anyone else notices this, but the people that uses the word "I" in like, every single sentence, tend to be more "annoying" than others. Unfortunetly there are some people that i know that do this--whether they are aware or not--and sometimes i just cant blame them. but yes, do they get extremely annoying, and the conversations tend to end up as a one-sided conversation where your mind is totally somewhere else and theyre still trying to talk to you. lol. maybe im just overthinking this a bit. but i remember someone telling me that "80% of the time youre talking to someone, youre using the word "I"" and yeah. so then now every time i talk, i try to avoid the word "I".
But i guess its unavoidable since i just used it like more than 17 times, not counting the ones that are in quotations.
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| Uhg.
Dont think i dont know you stalking me.
i know who you are. and alot more.
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| i totally forgot to update about my trip to seattle/canada last week. but i will get to it soon cuz i have pictures and videos to show you all. :]
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